The following "21 Ways" are simply a road map. I wish you peace and well-being as you explore the territory and discover your own ways.
1 |
Take 5-30 minutes in the morning to be quiet and meditate - sit or
lie down and be with yourself..." gaze out the window, listen to
the sounds of nature or take a slow quiet walk. |
2 |
While your car is warming up - try taking a minute to quietly pay
attention to your breathing. |
3 |
While driving, become aware of body tension, e.g. hands wrapped
tightly around the steering wheel, shoulders raised, stomach
tight, etc. Consciously work at releasing, dissolving that
tension... Does being tense help you to drive better? What does it
feel like to relax and drive? |
4 |
Decide to not play the radio and to be with yourself. |
5 |
When driving experiment with staying in the left lane, going
five miles an hour below the speed limit. |
6 |
Pay attention to your breathing and to the sky... trees, or
quality of your mind when stopped at a red light or toll plaza. |
7 |
Take a moment to orient yourself to your workday once you park
your car at the work place. Use the walk across the parking lot to
step into your life. To know where you are and where you are
going. |
8 |
While sitting at you desk, keyboard, etc., pay attention to bodily
sensations, consciously attempting to relax and rid yourself of
excess tension. |
9 |
Use your breaks to truly relax rather than simply "pausing." For
instance, instead of having coffee, a cigarette or reading, try
taking a short walk - or sitting at your desk and renewing
yourself. |
10 |
At lunch, changing your environment can be helpful. |
11 |
Try closing your door (if you .have one) and take some time to
consciously relax. |
12 |
Decide to "STOP" for 1-3 minutes every hour during the workday.
Become aware of your breathing and bodily sensations, allowing the
mind to settle in as a time to regroup and recoup. |
13 |
Use the everyday cues in your environment as reminders to "center"
yourself, e.g. the telephone ringing, sitting at the computer
terminal, etc. |
14 |
Take some time at lunch or other moments in the day to speak with
close associates. Try choosing topics that are not necessarily
work related. |
15 |
Choose to eat one or two lunches per week in silence. Use this as
a time to eat slowly and be with yourself. |
16 |
At the end of the workday, try retracing today's acknowledging and
congratulating yourself for what you've accomplished and then make
a ilst .for tomorrow. You've done enough for today! |
17 |
Pay attention to the short walk to your car - breathing the crisp
or warm air. Feel the cold or warmth of your body. What might
happen if you opened to and accepted these environmental
conditions and bodily sensations rather than resist them Listen
to the sounds outside your workplace. Can you walk without feeling
rushed? What happens when you slow down? |
18 |
At the end of the workday, while your car is warming-up, sit
quietly and consciously make the transition from work to home -
take a moment to simply he - enjoy it for a moment. Like most of
us, you're heading into your next full-time job - home! |
19 |
While driving, notice if you are rushing, what does this feel
like? What could you do about it? Remember, you've got more
control than you might imagine. |
20 |
When you pull into the driveway or park on the street, take a
minute to orient yourself to being with your family members or to
entering your home. |
21 |
Try changing out of work clothes when you get home. This simple
act might help you to make a smoother transition into your next
"role" - much of the time you can probably "spare" 5 minutes to do
this. Say hello to each of your family members or to the people
you live with. Take a moment to look in their eyes. If possible.
make the time to take 5-10 minutes to be quiet and still. If you
live alone, feel what it is like to enter the quietness of your
nome, the feeling of entering, your own environment. |